Adventure milestones take on a independent life of their own attaching a unique level of achievement for each individual. These levels of achievement change over time as a person collects life experiences. I have completed dozens of marathons and while the each is still an adventure the very first few occupy a special place in my heart. Each person’s adventures are their own and we should celebrate those milestones that happen in everyone’s life.
I was witness to my son’s first milestone movement toward adventure Sunday night. He crawled for the first time. He’s eight month old, very close to the ninth month of life making him neither an early nor a late crawler; but perfectly situated at an average crawling age for an infant. He was sitting up on the floor and spied a red glass of water resting on the floor several feet from his position. (Those who are not parents take note: A significant portion of your sitting is now on the floor when you have an infant/toddler.). He leaned forward on his hands and slowly…very carefully crawled the three or so feet on all fours. At the end he hamfistedly grabbed at the cup with a triumphant smile. Unfortunately for him, Mom had to pull the full water cup away though he was rewarded with hard earned drink.
It was an amazing event for a parent. Even better was the fact that his mother, brother and I were in attendance to watch the first crawl. All three of us stopped what we were doing as soon as we realized what was about to occur. It was an exquisite few moments as we fell silent, rooting for this little guy to finish his very first crawl. Immediately upon success, excited clapping and hugging occurred. In those few moments the milestone was all over as a slightly bewildered Sam, happily smiling with everyone; but unaware of the true significance of his first crawl.
After emptying the cup and placing it away from him Sam completed a second crawl like a pro. This one was successfully recorded on video so the required videos could be sent to Grandparents, friends and family. We need not have worried about that capture as he’s been off to the races making use of his new found crawling skill. For the first time in his life he can travel independent of Mom, Brother, or Dad. He can explore the world based on his on own desires. While he doesn’t realize it; this is a true adventuring milestone. It’s his first one!
Keep crawlin’ ugly,